Thanksgiving brings together family, food, and fun, and for many of us, that includes our dogs. But between the turkey, guests, and irresistible smells, it is easy for dogs to forget their manners. Without structure, what starts as a cute begging moment can quickly turn into chaos, jumping, or food stealing.
The good news is that you can enjoy the holiday feast without stress or worry. With a few smart boundaries and a bit of training, your dog can stay calm, polite, and part of the celebration.
Why Thanksgiving Can Be a Challenge for Dogs
Thanksgiving is one of the most stimulating times of the year for dogs. The smells of roasted meat, new people arriving, and the constant movement create the perfect storm of excitement.
Even well-trained dogs may struggle when their normal routines are disrupted. Food on low tables, guests offering snacks, and kids dropping crumbs all test your dog’s impulse control.
A solid obedience foundation, like the one built in our Basic Obedience Program, helps your dog stay focused and respectful no matter what distractions surround them.
Rule 1: Practice the “Place” Command
If there is one command every dog should master before Thanksgiving, it is “place.” This command tells your dog where to go and stay until released, keeping them safely out of the dining area while guests eat.
- Introduce the command at least a week before the holiday.
- Use a mat or bed in a quiet corner of the room.
- Reward your dog for staying calmly in place as distractions increase.
When the big day arrives, your dog will already understand their spot in the celebration, calm, quiet, and relaxed.
For more guidance on building impulse control in high-distraction settings, our post on the importance of consistency in dog training is a must-read.
Rule 2: Teach Guests Your Dog’s Boundaries
Not everyone knows how to interact with dogs, especially when food is involved. Let guests know in advance that your dog has rules.
- Politely ask friends and family not to feed your dog from the table.
- Keep a treat pouch handy so you can reward good behavior yourself.
- Remind children to avoid approaching your dog while they are eating or resting.
These small steps protect your dog from unhealthy foods and prevent confusion over what is allowed.
Rule 3: Stick to Safe Foods Only
Many traditional Thanksgiving foods are dangerous for dogs. Fatty meats, onions, garlic, raisins, chocolate, and certain seasonings can cause illness.
If you want your dog to enjoy a festive snack, stick to safe, plain foods like:
- Boneless, skinless turkey, cooked
- Steamed green beans
- Mashed pumpkin, no added sugar or spices
- A small portion of plain sweet potato
According to PetMD’s holiday food safety guidance, many holiday scraps can be risky for pets, and even safe foods can upset the stomach when served in large amounts.
Rule 4: Maintain Structure During Gatherings
Structure keeps excitement from turning into bad behavior. Use your commands throughout the day to remind your dog that training still applies, even on holidays.
- Ask for “sit” before greeting guests.
- Use “down” during meal prep to keep them calm in the kitchen.
- Reward good choices frequently with praise or small treats.
Our blog on traveling safely with your dog also highlights how maintaining structure reduces stress, especially in busy or unfamiliar environments.
Rule 5: Provide Downtime and Space
Dogs can become overstimulated by the noise and activity of a holiday dinner. Provide a quiet retreat area where they can decompress.
Set up a crate, separate room, or cozy corner with water, toys, and a bed. Allow your dog to rest between social sessions. This not only prevents stress but also helps avoid unwanted behaviors like barking or jumping.
Rule 6: Exercise Before the Feast
A tired dog is a well-behaved dog. Take your dog for a long walk or play a round of fetch before guests arrive. Physical activity helps burn off excess energy, making it easier for your dog to stay calm throughout the day.
If the weather allows, consider incorporating obedience drills into your walk to keep focus sharp. Commands like “heel” and “leave it” are especially helpful around tempting smells.
Rule 7: Watch for Signs of Stress
Dogs communicate discomfort through subtle signals. Pay attention to signs of stress such as lip licking, yawning, pacing, or hiding. These cues mean your dog may need a break from the crowd.
Intervene early by guiding them to their crate or place mat. Reward calm behavior once they settle again. Early redirection prevents problems before they start.
Checklist: Thanksgiving Prep for Dog Owners
- Refresh obedience training before the big day.
- Designate a “place” for your dog to relax.
- Communicate feeding rules to guests.
- Prepare a few safe dog-friendly snacks.
- Create a quiet rest space.
- Exercise your dog before festivities begin.
Following this checklist ensures your dog stays polite, safe, and happy during the holiday celebration.
FAQ: Thanksgiving and Dog Behavior
Q: Can I give my dog turkey?
Yes, but only plain, cooked turkey without bones, skin, or seasoning.
Q: What should I do if my dog eats something unsafe?
Contact your veterinarian or emergency clinic immediately. Symptoms can develop quickly, especially with fatty or toxic foods.
Q: How do I keep my dog from begging?
Use the “place” command during meals and reward calm behavior. Consistency is key to preventing bad habits.
Q: Is it okay to include my dog in family photos during dinner?
Yes, as long as it does not overwhelm them. Take photos early before guests or food create too much excitement.
Final Thoughts
Thanksgiving is about gratitude and togetherness, and that includes your dog. With preparation and clear boundaries, you can keep the celebration enjoyable and stress-free for everyone.
Obedience training builds the foundation for these moments, turning potential chaos into calm confidence. If you are ready to strengthen your dog’s manners before the next big family event, connect with our Columbus team through our contact page.